honeymoon ideas

Well, we found a dj. I now feel like the big, necessary vendors have been chosen. We now need a form of transportation and...a honeymoon! This has been pretty fun for me so far because I love planning trips. Even when I have no trip on the horizon, I like to go to tripadvisor.com or frommers.com and check out places I'd want to go and plan fake trips. Its great. For real, it is. For our honeymoon, we initially thought going to an all inclusive resort was the obvious choice. Neither of us have ever been to one and the relaxation, beach, cocktails, having nothing to do aspect of them was very appealing. The problem here lies in the date of our wedding: August 9th, the beginning of hurricane season. Now, normally I don't think this would worry me or concern me much. However, we got stuck in Florida a couple years ago during a hurricane and my friend's honeymoon got all messed up last year because of hurricanes. So basically, I just don't want to take our chances with anything southern and/or carribean. **tears streaming down my face** This has led me to some creative thinking and I have come up with some alternate plans. Our only requirements is that it is a place neither of us has been and will offer relaxation and ideally an ocean. So I bring you our options:

1. Central California: Monterey, Carmel, Big Sur

I have wanted to go to Big Sur ever since I saw that episode of Six Feet Under when Brenda and Nate get married on a cliff there. SO beautiful! I've done some extensive research on this area. All three of these cities, along with Pacific Beach and Pebble Beach are very close to one another and are usually visited in one trip when people vacation there. The area is very quaint and rich with artists, has a couple state parks and reserves, beaches, cute little boardwalks, restaurants, shops and beautiful scenery. We would stay in Monterey or Carmel, spend a couple days probably just lounging on the beach and relaxing. We'd have a couple nice dinners and we would take one day to travel to Big Sur spend the day checking it out (it's about a half hour away I think). Aside from these pics, I have seen plenty of peeps chillin on the beach also, which is probably what we would spend most of our time doing.

Pros: beautiful area, no weather issues to worry about.

Cons: Might not be the relaxing trip we are looking for if we end up seeing a lot of the sights.

Cannery Row - In Monterey (The ocean is right in the distance)

Carmel-by-the-Sea - cute paths right on the beach

Look how cute these little shops are in Carmel...I can't stand it!

A view of coastal Big Sur

2. Palm Springs

I know, I know, it will be HOT there in August (Avg high = 107, Avg low = 76). But!! I feel like as I read about it, it is like Vegas without all the craziness and contant stimulation. There are huge resorts with tons of pools and restaurants, like Vegas, which I love. There are outlet malls, golf courses, casinos, spas, etc. It is loaded with Hollywood history (love that stuff) and every Thursday night they have this thing alled Village Fest where there are musicians, food, arts and crafts vendors, and a Farmers Market. It kind of sounds like the sunset celebration on Mallory Square in Key West. ..and we loved that. This also happens to be the home of the Viceroy...the hotel where the most out of control coordinated wedding took place that I saw on theknot.

Pros: It will be the off season, so the rates are great. It will be the ultimate in relaxation. The closest to what an all inclusive would offer I think...without the ocean and the unlimited food and booze.

Cons: The weather. Not near an ocean.

You can take a tram ride through Palm Springs, Palm Desert, Coachella Valley, Mt San Jacinto's Chino Canyon, etc. I will note that these tram/ski lift things are my least favorite things in the world. I feel as though at any minute, it will fall off the cable and I will fall to my death. I will however, force myself to do this if we did the honeymoon here.

This is the Marriott resort, which I guess is the most expansive of the resorts (and yes, I mean expansive, not expensive)

3. SoCal - The O.C (Laguna Beach, Newport Beach, Huntington Beach)

Not going to lie...MTV had a huge impact on this decison. Who is going to tell me that Laguna Beach and Newport Beach don't look adorable though?! Remember the views from LC's house?? Yes, it was awesome. Besides the slim chance I could run into a Laguna Beach High School alum, this area also has a lot of shops, restaurants, art galleries (not sure if I even really love art galleries though)and great beaches.

Pros: Great beaches. Quaint towns.

Cons: May involve a lot of driving, might not be very relaxing.

Laguna Beach

Newport Beach - another cute little beach town like Laguna, only Newport is part of the Balboa Penuinsula and close to Balboa Island and Catalina Island. Balboa Island is where the frozen banana stand was located on Arrested Development...and that is the only reason why I know of Balboa Island...and now I think I need to read more books. It is a hip and cool beach town with trendy cafes and surf shops. We could rent tandem bikes and take them for a spin. Oh! and good news! Summer is the best time to visit Newport Beach apparently. The beach crowd is relatively small because the peninsula is located somewhat off the beaten track. The car traffic is minimal also, which makes for great bike travel. Riding along the boardwalk is fun and a great way to check out some of the most expensive real estate in Southern California.

Catalina is described a quaint island escape in the Pacific, framed by crystal-clear waters, picturesque beaches and rolling foothills, boutiques, galleries, etc. The island can be toured by golf cart, which would also remind me of Key West.

Newport Beach

Balboa Island

Catalina Island

Huntington Beach is known as "surf city", it has a great beach with that famous Municipal pier that kind of reminds me of the Santa Monica pier. I am sure we would just spend the days here parked on the beach watching the surfers.

And another shot of the beach during a surfing competition...

So, what do you think? Been to any of these places? Recommend or not recommend any? Any suggestions I might not have thought of? I'd love some input.